Man it wasn’t like I did it on purpose. They threw a party that was literally 1000x over the allowable sound level (PD measured dB was 105, 70 is allowable). When I told them they could turn it down and it’d be cool, they said no. They then tried to guilt me. They asked if I was in a frat as if that was relevant. They then called me racist. They ended the interaction with saying “god is watching” like I was committing some grievous sin by asking them to turn their music down. I see the consequences of real sins far too often to take that seriously.
Again, over music being 1000x louder than the limit. I would have been happy to work with them in multiple ways. If they had given us real notice so we could find something else to do that night or give us an actual cut off time, we wouldn’t have even asked them to turn it down. Hell if they didn’t threaten me last time we wouldn’t have called the cops.
Just like with bad faith actors in politics, actual boundaries have to be set and kept sometimes.
If your party is sustaining 95 decibels on someone else’s residential property 100s of feet away for hours straight that’s just objectively problematic IMO
fwiw I think it’s super shitty to blast the loud music at your neighbors. Although given the close proximity of neighbors and not wanting to get into neighborhood drama I probably would have taken my 1yo over there with her sound blocking headphones and hung out for like 30 minutes and hope someone takes a hint when I say have to head home for bed
In b4 we see camera footage of this on the news or better yet Neighborhood Wars.
Seriously be careful CN. Lots of stupid shit happening out there in lolAmerica. Legit worried.
Had an employee that essentially had cul-de-sac ne’er-do-well failure to launch adult sons that turned to low level dealing and making threats. He snap called when the company offered to relocate him to another state including company buy-out. They eventually moved back, but in a totally different suburb.
Yeah I’m not thrilled about developments for that reason. However, toddler has already decided sleep is for the weak and it’s damn near broken me the past two weeks (I do all night care)